Dear Yache
Thank you for writing such a thoughtful discussion post. It clear to me that you have a healthy understanding of the importance of spiritual formation in the life of a spiritual leader.
In your discussion post you mentioned a few practical strategies for a spiritual leader to help his family grow and mature in Christ. Things like reading the bible together and talking about the implications of the texts we are reading. In my own family I have found that those moments truly bring us closer together and to God. This will naturally lead to us praying together as well.
In my family I have become increasingly aware of my role to be the spiritual leader and not only in my team. Your emphasis on the leader to be prioritizing their own growth and relationship with God and others has convicted me and further confirmed how important this is.