A spiritual leader should start spiritual formation at home before extending it to the church or wider ministry. Just as Christ cared for his disciples daily, spiritual leaders must nurture their families with intentional love, prayer and teaching. Their first ministry is their home.

A key strategy is creating regular rhythms of worship, Bible study and prayer as a family. This helps build a spiritual culture where children and spouses are not just told about Christ but experience him together. Another practice strategy is prioritizing quality time thus putting away ministry responsibilities to truly connect with their spouse and children emotionally and spiritually. This could be weekly family devotions, monthly one on one talks or just a culture of openness where faith is lived out in daily life.

One danger many Spiritual leaders face is neglecting their family while trying to serve everyone else. It is easy to become so focused on the needs of the congregation that the needs at home are overlooked. This can lead to resentment rebellion or spiritual dryness within the family. Children of ministers can grow up feeling like church was more important than them.

When a spiritual leader care’s deeply for his or her family it reflects powerfully to the congregation. It becomes a living example of Christ-like Leadership. People are more likely to trust and follow a leader who leads well at home. The family becomes a testimony of love, grace and spiritual maturity. In short Spiritual leaders should model the love of Christ first within their own households. That is where healthy leadership begins.